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- Book Synopsis
- A memoir of a family living with motor neurone disease 'A searingly honest tale of love, life and death' - Sarah Wootton, Dignity in Dying Die Smiling: A Memoir: The Sorrows and Joys of a Journey to Dignitas by Julie Casson is an unforgettable, deeply human non-fiction memoir that follows one family's path through motor neurone disease (MND/ALS), enduring love, and the search for dignity, autonomy, and end-of-life choice. When Julie's husband, Nigel, begins to lose control of his speech, the couple are propelled into a baffling medical maze - appointments, tests, and the creeping knowledge that something serious is unfolding. The devastating moment arrives: Nigel is told he is believed to have motor neurone disease, "life-limiting" with "no cure." What follows is not only an intimate portrait of living with terminal illness, but an unflinching account of what it means to love someone through progressive loss - voice, movement, independence - and still fight for joy, humour, and meaning. Written with candour, elegance, and sharp-witted warmth, Die Smiling is at once a caregiver memoir, a story of family resilience, and a compassionate exploration of palliative care, hospice realities, and the emotional labour of long-term caring. Julie takes readers behind the scenes of everyday life with MND: the practical challenges, the shifting relationships, the private grief, and the fierce tenderness that can exist alongside exhaustion. It is also a memoir that insists on seeing the whole person - Nigel's character, his humour, his determination, and the way laughter can survive even when circumstances are bleak. Central to this true story is the question of control. Nigel's belief in choice becomes a guiding force, leading to the decision that the family will travel to Dignitas in Zurich, Switzerland-a name often surrounded by myth, and here described plainly and thoughtfully. Julie clarifies that Dignitas is not a clinic; it is a not-for-profit members' society supporting "self-determination, autonomy and dignity." As the administrative steps intensify and the date approaches, Nigel's motivation is heartbreakingly simple: he wants to die while he is still himself - "while I can still smile." The final chapter of this journey is both intimate and startling in its ordinariness: planning, travel, a confirmed date - 25 April -and the family's last day together in Switzerland. When the end comes, Julie records it with clear-eyed restraint: "Just before noon. Swiss time." For readers seeking books about assisted dying, death with dignity, right-to-die debates, euthanasia ethics, MND/ALS lived experience, or simply a powerful memoir of marriage and devotion, Die Smiling offers a rare blend of honesty, empathy, and profound love - an extraordinary story, told with grace. Reader reviews 'It's written with dazzling honesty and clarity - I salute the courage of his family in writing and sharing it. Take the time to read it no matter what you think. It's a beautiful story' - MTT 'Julie Casson has written a beautiful memoir. What a remarkable man Nigel was, courageous, fun-loving family man. Julie and her family are unbelievably supportive.' - B2NYC 'Read in 2 days - laughed a lot and cried a lot - truly inspiring. Julie is a fantastic writer and should be encouraged to write a novel. It is one of the best memoirs I have read for a long time and have learnt so much about MND and Dignitas.' - K Matthieson 'I was greatly moved by Julie's book describing the initial diagnosis of her husband's MND through to the sad, yet uplifting conclusion at the Dignitas establishment in Switzerland. Throughout the book, the strength and importance of family is clear to see. Moments of intense sadness are counterbalanced with typical northern humour...often, on the same page.' - David Chard 'I have never before experienced every emotion in one book before. Heartbreaking and heartwarming but also hilarious.' Customer Buy the book and start reading
- About The Author
- Julie Casson is a debut author. She is a mum, grandma and great-grandma and lives in Scarborough, North Yorkshire with her beloved miniature schnauzer Bodger. Julie spent twenty-three years working in Further Education. Starting out as a teacher, her career evolved into management. She holds an MA in management from the University of York. Her career ended unexpectedly in 2007, when her husband, Nigel, was diagnosed with motor neurone disease. Julie became Nigel's primary carer. Nigel's positivity, humour and pragmatism throughout his illness, and his determination to take control of his death, are the inspiration for this memoir. In 2011, she started a blog, posting light-hearted commentary on everyday existence and specific accounts of Nigel's experience, which she later developed into this book. She completed a creative writing course at the University of York. Julie is a supporter of the Motor Neurone Disease Association and member of Dignity in Dying. Her greatest wish is that Nigel's story contributes to changing the law on assisted dying in the UK.
- Product Details
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- ISBN
- 9781914487262
- Format
- Paperback
- Publisher
- Haythorp Books, (15 February 2024)
- Number of Pages
- 366
- Weight
- 590 grams
- Language
- English
- Dimensions
- 234 x 153 x 26 mm
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